Yes, race is still a topic that needs to be discussed.

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I have done a lot of reading, watching, and listening. I do not have any or all of the answers. But I’m trying to learn. I am trying to figure out how to actually make a difference. And I truly believe that if we can raise our kids to understand the facts about racism, teach them to use their eyes and ears to recognize social injustice and empower them with bravery and strength to step up and act in times when they see racism in action, then we can make a difference. 


We as parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, teachers, etc. don’t need to overthink it. Kids are inherently good. They are inherently curious. They inherently want to love. They will ask questions. But as adults, we need to know how to respond. We have to be able to teach them right from wrong. 


I think conversations starting inside the home can be a powerful catalyst to making this a lasting change. Having hard discussions that are awkward and uncomfortable are necessary. I think a simple and attainable way for most families to START fighting racism is to diversify your children's book collection. Expose your kids to books who have characters who don’t always look like them. This will likely cause them to ask questions. Do your research and be prepared to answer in an honest and loving way. Help your child understand they can be part of much larger movement. 


With that being said, here are a few of our favorite books to help diversify your children's book collection to help get you started. Some have deeper meaning. Some are simply good books that have minority characters. I am very aware that I am only scratching the surface of a much deeper issue with these recommendations, but I do believe it is quite honestly one of the EASIEST things ANYONE can do to START to be part of the change.



Keep in mind that research shows that being colorblind does not help fight racism. So teaching your kids that “even though we do not look the same, we are all equal,” does not help. Teaching them that "God loves us all the same" is wonderful, but it does not address the issue at its core. Inequality is embedded into our society. We can not go from where we are now, to being colorblind overnight. Maybe one day. But not yet. In the meantime, it is crucial to talk to your kids about racism.


As for me, I’ll be honest—there's no manual for this and it's not straightforward. I’m a white mom of a black son. I don’t fit in with the standard monochromatic white or black family. I absolutely adore my family and because of them I have gained perspective and insight that is invaluable. I want to make a change, but I’m not sure how I’m going to do it. Frankly, I’m starting off just having conversations with friends and family in “our circles” in hopes that everyone can start to see how the other half lives. It is going to be an uphill battle, but I’m determined to make a difference, no matter how big or how small that may be.


Thanks for reading,

Kristen